Top 5 Unnecessary Newborn Items for 0-3 Months

The Top 5 Unnecessary Newborn Items for 0-3 Months

The top 5 items we found unnecessary for a newborn were a Rock and Play, Swaddle Sacks, Scratch Mittens, a Bassinet and Newborn clothes. Before our baby arrived there were a number of items people said we had to have.  We purchased or received many of them as gifts, and later wished we had saved the space and money!  Some of them might be surprising to you!  Just because we found that our newborn didn’t benefit from these items, doesn’t mean that yours wont!  Affiliate links to some of these items are included.

The top 5 times we found unnecessary for a newborn:

Rock and Play –

This was by far the one item that almost everyone we talked to said we had to have.  They said to get the electronic one that played music and rocked itself.  I can’t count the number of people who swore by Rock and Plays.  Promised it was the magic way to get babies to sleep, guaranteed it would allow us all to get extra rest, worked magic with babies who were having trouble sleeping.

It was one of the first things I put onto our registry.  And our baby could have cared less!  He was willing to occasionally hang out in it.  Even less frequently took a short nap in it.  It served as a place to pop him quickly if we needed to run out of the room, but it didn’t soothe him, it didn’t put him to sleep, and it definitely didn’t provide any extra rest for us!  The other downside is that you can really only use it until your baby is able to turn over, so it was wasted space and money for a short few month window.

Swaddle Sacks –

Another well recommended “must have”.  I do think the convenience is key when you don’t want to have to fold and tuck blankets, but another item that our babe could have cared less about.  We purchased Swaddle Sacks in multiple sizes so that he would have them as he grew, as well as different fabrics so we would have lighter and thicker options.  The velcro got stuck to everything in the laundry, which was just an added irritant.  Not only did it not help him sleep, but he was able to very easily slip his arm out of the top.  If your baby enjoys being swaddled I can see this being a great product, but it was a fail for us!

Scratch Mittens –

This was one of the last items I went out to purchase before baby arrived.  I made sure to have a couple pair in the diaper bag ready for his homecoming.  We never even put them on him once…I learned to become confident cutting or filing his nails and never had a worry about mittens.  If your baby is a scratcher, don’t waste money on mittens, just slip a pair of socks over their hands.

A Basinet –

Truthfully were weren’t quite sure what sleep system would work best for us before bringing our baby home.  Honestly every had raved so much about the Rock and Play that I just assumed he would take most of his naps in there.  We knew that in the first few months we wanted him in our room with us, so I set up the pack and play and put a basinet inside.  I figured if he enjoyed napping in there I could just carry it up and down the stairs and just set up the basinet next to where ever I was.  Once again, he never once slept inside.  He was perfectly content in the Pack and Play and it was another waste of space and money.

Newborn Clothes –

We knew our little guy was on the bigger side, but we didn’t realize quite how big!  He ended up being 9 lbs. 6 oz and wearing 0-3 month clothing and size 1 diapers.  We barely touched all the newborn outfits we had purchased or had been gifted.  I had a personalized coming home outfit that we squeezed his chunky little thighs into, but I packed away a number of untouched clothing.  Save your $ and go with bigger sizes!

Just as another disclaimer, what works for one baby (or doesn’t work!) won’t work for everyone.  Take all of the advice you receive with a grain of salt, and if there are items you’re not sure you will get a lot of use out of, consider shopping second hand!

Goodbye 2016, Hello 2017!

Simply Living has been on extended hiatus once again!  Here is a wrap up of 2016!

We began 2016 embarking on a Debt Snowball as we worked to pay down our existing debt while searching for the perfect home.  Dave Ramsey provided most of our foundation.  We listed our debts from smallest to biggest and delighted in watching the snowball grow.

We had 8 steady months of paying down our debt.  We were able to eliminate 2 student loans, 2 credit cards and a car loan.  A total of $18,412!  That sure felt like an accomplishment.

As we paid down our existing debt, what we were able to afford for a house continued to grow.  In September we were excited to finally have an offer accepted, and we closed on our first home in November!  This did mean that we had to pause our debt snowball, but I’m proud of what we were able to accomplish in our short 8 months.

During 2016 my husband and I both started new jobs and we completed our first Whole30.  Two really big personal achievements!  We celebrated with a week long cruise around the Caribbean in August.

We ended 2016 in our new home surrounded by stripped wallpaper, new floors and too many paint cans to count.

This year we are extremely excited that our family will be expanding and we will be able to welcome our first child, a son!  We have numerous house projects under way, some big, some small and some very unexpected.  All significantly more expensive than we had planned.  Things are moving and life is happening quickly!

We are back to scrubbing our budget, particularly with a new house, new baby on the way, and a maternity leave around the corner, we are having to be creative in finding ways to make our finances balance.  While we might not be able to put everything into a debt snowball right now, we have learned many ways to be frugal and stretch our paychecks while preventing taking on additional debt.  I’m confident that these skills will help us through the tightest times.

Stick around to see what 2017 has in store for us!

Erin Condren Planner

So I’m new to the “life planner” trend, but I’m excited to jump on board!  Many of my coworkers have planners where they go all out with decorating each week.  I don’t know how far I’ll take it, but I love the positive messages that get intertwined with keeping the week organized.  So,  I asked for a planner this Christmas and was pretty excited when it arrived this week!

Erin Condren’s motivational packaging, love the positive messages!

Before I even opened it all they way there were positives messages waiting for me! “Sometimes the best thing you can do is not thing, not stress…just breathe”.  I love it.  I did get mine personalized, and I love the everyday design, nothing too fancy.

Erin Condren Planner
Personalized cover

I have seen all kinds of people’s different spreads, with stickers, stamps, ribbon, tape and quotes.  It’s really unbelievable how creative people can be.  Maybe throughout the year I’ll get more daring, but for now I just wanted an organized place to keep track of everything.

January starts with a great quote: “Say yes to new adventures”.  Perfect way to start the year.  Theres a monthly overview calendar where you can see the month at a glance and list some of your goals.  Then I chose the vertical layout where it goes week by week.  The pages were empty, but clean and crisp and ready to be filled!

Erin Condren Planner
January week in vertical life planner

I love that she leaves space on the side and bottom for note taking, to do lists or quick reminders.  They aren’t defined so you can really use them for anything.  And on the top left corner of each week there is a small box that says “Thankful Thought”.  What a great way to stop and think of something you are thankful for that week.

So here is what my week spread looks like:

Planner with Stamps and Washi Tape
Erin Condren life planner, vertical spread, week of January 11th-17th

I used the left side for a to do list, which I bulleted with a small heart stamp.  I added some chevron washi tape to the bottom and some pink sparkly tape to the top.  And then throughout the week I used some of the sample stickers that came with the planner for my gym days, pay-day, and my mom’s birthday.  Everything else was just simple stamps colored in and what I wrote for reminders for the week.  I added my work schedule to the top since that changes from day-to-day, and I made a note to myself on the bottom of what my husband’s schedule is like since he is home at a different time every night.

I used my PaperMate Flair Pens, which are my favorite for writing, but they do bleed through the pages.  This just means that next week I will need to put something on those squares to cover up the bleed through.  Perhaps stickers or colored paper that I can tape down.

I did also purchase the snap in meal planner, which I’m really excited about!  One side lets you plan out the meals for the week and the other side is meant for a grocery list.  Here is our menu for the week:

Menu plan for the week
Menu plan for the week

I love how everything can be organized into one place!  I’m excited to see what this has in store for me.  We will see if I get into the creative piece of it, or if I just keep track of our different events and schedules.

Do you have a favorite planner?

Walgreens Special Discount

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Spring Flowers

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Well, despite the fact that good old Punxsutawney Phil saw his shadow the other day, it already feels like spring!  Even with the ridiculously mild winter we have been having, I have a sinking feeling we might be in for another April Fools blizzard this year!

The mild, almost spring like, weather has already got me in the mood to be enjoying the outdoors!  This year we actually have a really nice yard and patio to enjoy.  What would be more perfect than some beautiful and easy to manage flowers?  I’ve never done much planting other than from seed, but how easy would bulbs be?

I visited the website and could hardly tear myself away!  The video library is full of inspiration, which had me pinning ideas and filing away thoughts in my head.  I already know what I want our patio looking like…and it’s only February!

Another fantastic feature were the easy relate to ladies who offered all kinds of tips and words of wisdom.  I loved Marcy’s tips about how to cover your bulbs with leaves in the fall, this helps give an extra layer of protection so that they will be ready to sprout again in the spring.  No need to plant new ones, it’s the gift that keeps on giving!

Every Christmas my Dad gives my Mom Narcissus (or Paper White) Bulbs, which she plants on a bed of rocks, inside.  No need for a garden, or worrying that a late frost will kill of early sprouts.  And they smell fantastic, what a great gift!

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Let’s get ready for spring and bring some beautiful pops of color into the world!  Make sure to visit to learn more.  Inside, or outside, bulbs are the way to go!  Happy planting!!

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